Questioning What You Are Told
Living and getting used to a fast paced life has gotten many young adults to a regrettable destination which they could not take a turn back as they have in some way crumbled.
The First Paced Life
As a result of fast paced life, many young adults do not think of questioning what they see or what they are told, all they do is move along with life, and never look back or think of questioning what they are told or see.
Information is everywhere and anywhere, it is easy to find them online, even in schools, students find it hard to read text books and handouts as they prefer to go online to source for the information they need as search engine seems more reliable than physical material, it doesn’t take minutes you will in someway, somehow find answer to your questions.
Making calls and other things such as communication has been so easy, with the help of social media platforms, It is easy to get across to millions of people right from the comfort of your home.
Since life is easy and information isn’t hard to get then why should we ask when we can easily get the information we need at a good pace. This is more reason why most young adults easily believe in things that seem obviously not real or true.
Laziness in Question What Young Adults Are Told
As a result of easy and fast paced life, almost everyone don’t want to stress too much to get what they want, if it is possible to order for a meal from food app and make it appear on the dining table in seconds, you will be surprise to see people ordering for such without questioning how it got there.
“People don’t want to know how it is done; all they want to know is if it is done”. This kind of lifestyle is common in most young adults who are desperate for success and it is what makes young adults of this generation lose interest in believing that patience and hardwork pay off. How to make easy money is what young adults are after.
Young adults with great minds are full of opinion but they will rarely challenge what they hear from other people. Being a young adult should be a time of learning, but it is a pity that only few young adults are interested in hearing this.
Young adults are entitled to have fun. It is good to have fun but getting carried away with flashy things of the world and spending money on irrelevant things are what could make you get to your 50’s and regret your 20’s as a young adult.
Having fun as a young adult is not a crime but making fun your primary objective while ignoring to focus on what is ahead of you is what makes the difference. Most old people you see out there who are poor didn’t become poor at that age, they started like you as a young adult as they believe in fantasies and could not have the time to question what they were told or even question their own opinions and every decision they make while they were young is a big challenge to them.
They were then ignorant of why time is important, they never know the value of time and why time is everything, Have you read about the ignorant man? Perhaps you should; they only act because they see people doing similar things they believed without questioning.
Most young adults have failed in their various businesses as they do not think of researching what they were told before they ventured into their businesses. Because they say or you see a business growing does not give you the authority to start the same business.
Without right planning or research on a business, it is possible to get stuck or lose everything you invested in such a business at the end because you did not understand the business starting; accepting anything you hear about a thing can easily destroy you.
More reason why you should always start a business that goes along your career also questioning what you are told and research could make you discover more.
The right time to break the poverty mindset is as a young adult, at this stage you have all the time in the world to think and make the right decision for yourself, if you wish to remain poor or become rich.
One mistake young adults make is that since they have made some little amount of money at a certain age, most young people believe that there is no need to make much or even think that the money they have made has shown a great promise of a brighter future which is false.
If you make some money at a young age does not mean you will become rich in the future, it only shows you are some steps close, which at this stage of making money, it is easy to lose what you have made than adding to what you have on ground, if you are a victim of this, you should learn not to give in to failure because once a loser does not make you a loser, you can change your story if you learn from your mistakes.
People Will Love You
When things are going well with you, it is easy to find people around you as they will claim to love you for your success, People will love and respect you because you have grown but believing and accepting anything you hear is the beginning of the downfall. When people love you, most of them only love you because you are progressing.
On the other hand, accepting anything and believing what people say could ruin you as there are people who hate you for your success, as all they look forward to is to see you fall, you might wonder why people hate you for your success.
The truth is that everyone can not be successful because in some way some people will choose and follow a wrong path in life which in turn leads to failure, so when people notice you being successful they envy.
Experience could make you discover things and make you have a better understanding to differentiate appearance and reality, as to what seems black and white might be many shades of gray, this is why failure is the best teacher to become successful and to gain new experiences.
Sign Of Progress
Age does not necessarily come with wisdom, accepting anything you are told will never make you progress, experience and exposure will lead you the right part when you are close to being successful, many strange things will happen and if you aren’t conscious enough you may have fallen for or accepting things you shouldn’t, with the signs of progress and achievement you can easy fathom the right path to success.
Believe and Mindset
Never argue with someone who believes, they will never accept your ideology rather they will convince you to believe in what they believe in and make you accept anything you are told, so it is best to think for yourself and question what you are told.
These are some of the criteria of dangerous people you should beware of, because they can harm you mentally or psychologically. These people could be anyone and even our loved ones. Among other mistakes alux stated that young people don’t know when to listen and when not to listen to their parents.
To this end, one of the greatest weaknesses of young adults is that they tend to always accept what they are told by the elderly ones without questioning or having a second thought or rethink about what they are told.
Accepting what you hear from the older generation does not guarantee how successful you can become but following your instinct and questioning what you are told may help you towards success.