Traded Love
The love of money can make true relationships fade away. Nowadays people care no more about true love in relationships they now trade and replace true love for money but does it really worth trading true love for money in relationships?
The reasons why relationships fail are based on so many
factors with which we have once discussed some of them in one of our previous
posts. When we talk about trading love for money, it could be a very genuine
reason why true relationships fail or fade away.
But firstly we have to
understand what money is and the power it can hold in a relationship.
What
is Money?
Money is globally material
substance which is valuable as a form of currency to purchase goods and services.
A person who has money is categorized as a rich or a wealthy person,
automatically the poor are the ones who do not have.
Also, here at CravingBiz, we
have once discussed about the three kinds of people in the world and their and objectives in the race of life.
Some people run the race to become rich and some for power while the others
seem to be the spectators.
Money itself is power most
especially when properly used by the application of wisdom. So, imagine a
person who has money in a relationship, such person has the right and will to
control anything he wishes into his possession. He is always at the top of his
game, he controls his own world.
However, it is natural that
nobody wishes to remain poor as we all keep craving for success each and every day.
Though, the irony is; everybody cannot be rich nor everyone will remain poor in
life, as nature has its way of synchronizing things randomly to bless and do
otherwise.
What is Love?
Love is a complex set of
emotions, behaviors, and beliefs associated with strong feelings of affection,
protectiveness, warmth, and respect for another person. - goodtherapy
As the definition of love
states above, love is associated with affection, protectiveness and respect.
The question now remains that, is love truly associated with the aforementioned
when there is no money involved?
For years money and love has
long been causing a dramatic scenario between lovers and this has really being
a wild challenging topic and issue that is yet to be resolved.
In a relationships money and
love are important, although money and love are two different things but when
combined together they form a bound that keeps a relationship going.
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Can
True Love Survive Without Money?
Many relationships have
failed because of money or other material things, in fact most relationship
leads to break up because both partners cannot cater for each other’s need.
Nevertheless, when true love
stands, it is believed that nothing can come in between the bound that binds
people together, but that is not the case in this generation.
Everybody wants to be
comfortable in their home or relationship which is not absolutely possible
because at some points in time challenges would surface this is natural though.
Regardless, taking care of issues in a relationship involves people with matured and positive mindsets.
Howbeit, so many people have
been misled in relationships due to been enticed by money although no one wants
a relationship that cannot be enjoyed or that they cannot derive material
satisfactions from.
The fact remains that money
is important but it must not be the utmost priority of any relationship. We
should learn not to build our relationships only on money or material things
because this has cost so many people especially the male gender into
desperation by involving themselves in actions that are unspeakable of.
The
Quest For Money
In their desperate quest for
money, some people go as far as committing atrocious acts like robbing, scam,
fraud and doing money ritual just to get money to impress others or their
lovers.
The truth is that the money
gotten from violent or ungodly acts will leave someday because we do not work
for it. A partner that loves us due to selfish interest such as money and other
material things will leave us as soon as everything is gone.
Consequences
For Both Lovers Who Trade Money For Love?
Lovers who involve
themselves in a violent act just to impress their partners will face these
consequences:
For
The Male: The money we violently work for to impress our lover
will someday leave and when it does the so called partner will also leave
because the only thing keeping the relationship together is the material
benefits that is been gotten.
The last consequence is that
when kamas law comes into play, you shall reap what you sow violently.
As
For The Females: A lady who trades or values love for money
might end up being used for violent act such as money ritual and many more if
care is not taken.
Ladies that values or trade
love for money are material freaked and most times they sell their body
sexually to get whatever they want. The bitter truth is that, we should never
forget that we cannot keep doing this forever; sooner or later our body fades
away likewise the unrealistic love. We can as well be encouraged by reading on the
“Slay queen who just repented”.
Perhaps this might help by encouraging us the more on why we abstain from
trading love for money.
Lastly, we shall reap what
we sow; somehow we get to pay for every debt we owe. So what debt do we owe and
how ready are we to pay back the debt when nature asks?
Words
of Encouragement
We know it is not easy to be
in a relationship without financial support but we have to learn how to be contented with whatever we have and our
lovers as well as the effort they put into making the relationship work out by
showing us true love.
True lovers will never let
their relationships collapse but they find all means to make it survive. It is
good to find a means of letting a relationship survive.
However, it takes the help
of both lovers to assist each other for the success of a relationship. We
should also note that relationships can never be perfect just as we are not.
We encourage us all to focus
on the growth of our relationship and never should we be pressurized by the
society and peer group we belong
too.
Determination to make it
work out is the key to success in any relationship, be determined and never
think of trading money for love.
2 Comments
True lovers will never let their relationships collapse but they find all means to make it survive - Cravingbiz. We the youth of nowadays have a lot to learn from this especially the female folks.
ReplyDeleteThis is absolutely true. Thank you for your feedback
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