Path To Success
So many have failed; powerful people have fallen. While upcoming people who ought to be at the top have deviated from the path of success by the path they chose, consciously or unconsciously. Many people have failed because they were led or chose by themselves the path they follow. Here we will look into how the path we choose determines the quality of our success.
Everybody is destined to be great no matter the place
we come from, our background, race or the society
we belong to.
It is by default that everyone of us have a purpose in life and most
times the purpose are good. Having a purpose by examining oneself alone cannot
guarantee the level or quality of our success. Having a clear vision and dream is one thing while a mission to getting the vision and dreams come into reality
is another thing to consider.
Check everywhere around us; it will not take long before you see shattered dreams all
around. People are getting frustrated by
life; leading some to
suicide, fraud, stealing, crime, and other unspeakable acts. While others
pretend everything is
fine, they go far to the extent of
smiling and making other people happy while inside of them is agony and sorrow.
This very set of people are fakers,
they pretend and
act like everything is fine, they live in two different faces of life.
Factors Which Determines The Path We Choose
The quality of success we acquire is determined by
what path we follow in life which is determined by some physical factors such as: the society we belong
to, the friends we keep (by
staying away from fake friends),
home background, peer groups, and
what we decide by our own self to become.
We shall discuss on the un-highlighted factors while
we can click on the highlighted factors to read on how they could determine the
quality of our success in life
Another thing we should always consider or note
is this – Nobody can motivate us than ourselves. So how we end up living our
lives and the outcome we get and the path we follow
greatly determines the quality of our success in life.
How
Does
Our Society determine the quality of our success
The difference in goal is what makes the difference
and distinguishes us. The people who made up the society are of different
purpose and dreams. There we
find the good influencers and the bad ones,
but as we have said
earlier, “only you can motivate
yourself”. At this point in time it is upon us to choose which path we wish to follow. Nevertheless, we should not be mistaken by the people or friends
we fall, mingle or relate
with as most of us do. They are fakers, they pretend to be what
they are not just to influence us to their own interest by diverting our attention away from our plans, dreams and purpose in
life.
Home background
As they say “charity begins at home”, the home serves as the main channel linking the beginning to the end of every man’s success or achievement. A true leader and a bad leader, or successful and unsuccessful people are traced back to the home they came from. So everything we do in life is always traced back to the home we came from.
However this depends on two major things:
- The way we are trained
- The way we train ourselves
The
Way We Are Trained: It is the duty of our parents or
guardians to train their children well in the way that suit them and ways it
can add positive impact or influence to the society. Parents or guardians who
could not train their children well have in one way or the other failed
humanity and the world. The children we brought into the world might be by
mistake or not.
The most important thing is that we have brought
them to the world so it is our duty to train them right. It is normal for parents
and children to have misunderstanding; however, it is proper for both to listen
to eachother and to take to corrections. Read more on why parents need to listen to their children.
The Way We Train Ourselves: It is one thing to be trained by our parents or guardians; it is another thing to receive the training; and it is also another thing for us to train ourselves in the positive way of life. Little what parents can do as they come of age and get outdated to the things around them.
Nevertheless, to anyone who has consciously or
unconsciously chosen a path that isn’t suitable of adding any value to the
world or humanity, it is not too late to turn back and retrace our steps for a
better result. We don’t have to give up on ourselves at all. It is never too
late until we are late (death). We can always make things right by trying again
and not getting tired of trying again.
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